Dear Mom,

It's the day before Christmas Eve, and I'm actually not stressed.  Everything left to do are things I want to do, and I'm looking forward to.  Yes, even cleaning.

And today as I was cleaning the fourth bedroom in preparation for Michelle...I wouldn't want to sleep in there in the state it was in so I thought some reorganization was in order...imagine my surprise when I discovered that today's post wouldn't really be a letter to you.

Because I found a letter from you to me.

"Dear Kathryn,

It has been quite a journey to this momentous occasion in your life.  There have been so many ups and downs; but, as it is said let us go forth and rejoice in the Lord and the good.  There is so much good for you right now.  I pray it will always continue for you and Paolo together.

I am very proud of the woman you have become!  I admire your warmth, your character, your intelligence, your humor and your courage!

I feel that you have made the best choice for you in your choice of friend, partner, confidant, lover, spouse.

Paolo will always keep you balanced and he will always make you laugh.

You will always give him spontaneity and true happiness and stability.

But, Pumpkin, even when you are both older and all your grandchildren are gathered around you and you are telling "remember when" stores; you will always be my little Pumpkin.

I will always be here for you; even when you can't see me; and I will always love you more than life itself.

Be Happy Together, in God and Always!

Love,
Mommy"

I could not have received a better reminder that your spirit is always with me than your very own words.

Love,
Your Pumpkin